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NINE. (57 Ways to Beat Loneliness & Depression)
Stop blaming God
God is a good God, and he said he will not withhold any good thing from you, and he also said that he who finds a wife finds a good thing… God only wants good things for you.
No he does not control whether you get married or not…he has given you (and everyone else for that matter) the free will to make decisions. He can guide you, if you ask for his guidance, but he will not force you or anyone else to do anything. He loves you and wants the best for you. Whenever you feel yourself feeling sad and thinking that the reason you are single is because God wants you to be single. Stop yourself – if God wanted you to be single, you wouldn’t have the desire to be married.
Remember life is meant to be enjoyed, not to be spent blaming others for our misery.
So how do you ask for God’s guidance?
God is a good God
Great post!
Thanks Jaclyn Rae!
I love your post by the way – “I know He’ll never drop me”
You have one great post there!
For me, I just simply pray to God to guide me everyday. I have made a lot of mistakes in the past. I talk it out with God, share and pour all my thoughts and feelings to him via prayer. There were times too that I blamed him for my misery, that if he was all too powerful he could have done something to stop that incident from happening. But, like a true friend, he was and is always there for me. And like friends, we have our fights (although one sided) but still i ask him for forgiveness and in time I also understood the reasons why and other times the reasons have eluded me and I just jot it down to experience and learn from it.