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I’ve been thinking a lot lately about relationships and finding the “one” you want to spend the rest of your life with. I guess I’ve been thinking about it recently because I had been so busy living life that I hadn’t thought about it for so long. I remember I asked a friend one time what their purpose in life was, and they said “to get married.” Really! To get married? sounds like a wasted life to me.
Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s a noble thing to desire a spouse, but you and your spouse are supposed to come together to accomplish goals, a common purpose. If you don’t have a purpose, then what are you and your spouse going to do? Just sleep together? Well I hear that gets old after a while. Have kids? Well even they grow up and leave…so if you don’t know your purpose, what are you supposed to do with your spouse?
Why not do something this week that you have not done before. Sit down in a quiet place and ask God about your purpose. He wants to tell you. And you know what not only will you have a better relationship when you meet the “one,” but you will have a better more effective life, even if you decide not to be with the “one.”
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All the phases of marriage can only work if a great idea is the foundation. A relationship without a goal end as soon as it gets all emotion exhausted. Its very wise and of positive advantage to have an idea of what the two wants and how to achieve them. A lot of women today do not live happy in marriage because they are living the life of their partner which ought not to be.
Two separate individuals make (=) one does not mean creating the weaker one again i.e she puts aside her talents,ideas,strength to apply that of a man which in most cases does not complement hers. The debate if she do otherwise in an African setting is that she is not a good partner, but lot of that is changing as more women know just what the life and marriage is in the actual sense. Some great feminine brains died on the day they got involved, but with a purposeful start off marriage is the sweetest thing if the right persons are involved.
you are so right…so right! too bad that we often leave our sense of self behind…
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