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Two weeks ago we talked about whether money was important in a relationship, and then we celebrated resurrection Sunday. (Hallelujah!) This week we will be talking about the infamous biological clock.

It is time for all of us to get together (metaphorically) and crush our biological clocks! If you maintain your health you (a woman) can still have children even if you are over 40.

But “I want to be able to run around with my children and not be tired.” Well everyone gets tired taking care of children, but if you are unhealthy now, then you will be unhealthy then, so it boils down to whether you are living a healthy lifestyle now.

But “I’m scared, what if I never get married, what if I never have children because I waited so long, what if…what if…”

You are right, anything could happen. If you wait too long your limo may get hit by a renegade airplane on your way to the airport, killing your groom and living you miserable. If you wait too long, a comet may land on the exact spot where your future beau currently lives, leaving you hopelessly single for the rest of your life…

I say all this to say, if we want to spend the time being afraid, we can create all sorts of things to be afraid of. Focus instead on doing things right, and be surprised at the amazing results.

Why not do something this week that you have never done before. Eliminate the notion of a biological clock from your mind, and make decisions without even thinking about whether or not you will have enough “time” to do what you want to do with your marriage.

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